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Sunday, April 02, 2017
@ 11:43 AM

헤헿~

hello. 
its april already can u believe it?? and i got the feeling that im actually falling sick because of the season change and it kinda sucks. lol. its like these days im so busy with work and i feel like im not studying as much as im supposed to be and im getting worried cos its less than 3 weeks to mid terms. gg. 

things aside, i went to a korean wedding yesterday and like what i have already said on my fb post, it was a military wedding. meaning the groom is a commander in the military school and the venue was held in the military base academy. i would say its a very very eye opening experience and im glad that i got invited to the wedding. 

my point was about getting married. my sister already got married last year summer and this time with me attending another wedding made me feel like its interesting how and why people get married. this sem im taking a class called 'human communication' and so far i'd learnt why people stay in some relationships and why ppl decide to leave and remain single etc. it made me think a lot about my relationships with other people and why i continue to do so. 

getting married its not a simple and easy thing and i feel that u have to have that basic amount of commitment and trust for your partner. plus, economic status and the relationship with yr in laws family. its weird how im thinking of this but i feel like this is what u have to consider when u decide if u really want to spend the rest of yr life with a specific someone. but then again some may argue (this is not an essay lol) that this is why people get married. because theres risk in it and its life. u cant be sure of whats gonna happen in life and thats what made life interesting and special. u live because of ur life. if ure gonna be so sure of whats gonna happen in the future then whats the point? u just plan according to what u want and meh. no fun. 

costs and gains i must say. but watching miryeong unnie getting married yesterday just made me feel like she had taken such a big step in her life. really hope for the best for her marriage~ ^^

another reason why i have decided to blog today is because of what i feel abt relationships these days. lol. maybe im lonely. yes i think thats the reason why. but anw as u can tell from my few previous posts, its like bts bts bts. lol. and i have been thinking why are some ppl obsess with ppl whom they have hardly ever met in real life. like what is the cause and reason for them to become so into them. u get what i mean? 

yea so because of that i have been questioning myself. and i believe its because of recent events, stress and kpop idols are like a channel for ppl to relieve their stress? its like looking at sth so perfect. them having to train for years before being able to debut and stuff and when they do, they are finally able to experience the fame and sweetness of success. its like a reflection of reality (but not entirely). you will succeed if u work hard and believe in yourself. so i guess thats why idols act as a source of hope for some people. i did for me. and i have also read accounts where an elf almost committed suicide but it was suju for brought her back to life or sth like that. it does sound over dramatic but i believe its real. there must be something which the elf had seen in suju.  

interesting. very interesting. this kpop idol relationship. haha. idk what im doing again. im supposed to get lunch and study and yea. 

happy aprils to all those out there and stay healthy~! ^^

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